All that family is is a room full of people with a candle in the middle of it.
… All that family is is keeping the candle lit.
What do you do when one relative says,
“Ba Hum bug, gafaw, I can’t do this, WHEW.”
And blows the candle out.
First of all, the whole room is dark.
… Do you grab the guys collar and say,
“Hey, you just blew the candle out. You take responsibility, and re-light the candle.”