It feels wild that it has not even been a decade since the U.S. Supreme Court decided Obergefell, ending marriage discrimination against same-sex couples. It felt like we were on this inevitable path to mostly universal acceptance. Being gay was different from so many other oppressions, in that anyone you knew — someone in your family, your best friend, your rabbi — could be out or come out as gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, nonbinary or anywhere on the queer spectrum. ...